I have seen most of Eric Rohmer's films, but it took me a while to see this elegant movie from 1982, perhaps because it has the critical reputation of being one of his weaker efforts. Sabine (Rohmer regular Beatrice Romand, in a fine performance that makes us empathize with an immature and not very sympathetic character) is a young woman, tired of her relationship with a married man. She breaks up with him and decides it's time to marry. Not to anyone in particular, she just thinks its time to find someone that is good enough and settle with him and marry. In one party, she meets Edmond, a thirty-something lawyer (Andre Dussolier, a character actor from many French movies),a serious and handsome man who is a cousin to her best friend. She approaches him, he is polite to her but seems uninterested in her advances. But she interprets this as him playing hard to get, so in the following days she would step up her advances, to the point where she starts acting in an increasingly erratic manner. Not much more than this happens in the film, until towards the end we learn of the result of her pursuit of Edmond.

What some reviewers objected to in this film was that her behavior was unrealistic, but I don't feel that way (I certainly have known women of this type, though of course movies tend to exaggerate behaviors). "No man can resist me", Sabine boasts when Edmond politely rejects her advances. She has the arrogance some beautiful women have when they are young (since beauty fades and tends to do it faster than expected, women like this are in for some reality check when they age).

So, summing up, while this might not be among Rohmer's very best, it is certainly well done, and above his average.

A Good Marriage begins and ends on a train; it may not be the same train but I'm relatively sure young French girl Sabine (Romand) the film revolves around eyes up the same male individual she saw at the very beginning, at which point an unnatural sense of beaming sexuality was unlocked and she would rush home to call up another man she knows and also acts as a mistress for. In starting and ending the film in the same manner, French director Eric Rohmer not only concludes on a note that is ambiguous in its overall tone as to whether this is a happy conclusion to events or not, but brings the arc of Sabine's character plus her recent exploits around to a natural enough conclusion, a sense that she's finished right where she started, enabling us to conclude that Sabine has had a crack at operating outside of her usual world or 'bubble'; advice along the way from friends and family alike, and now we see a natural flow once again take its course.

We do indeed begin with a lustful glare on a young man of about Sabine's age, something that sparks off a yearning for male contact that evening and it is the married, although with recent problems, Simon (Atkine) that is to fill that role. Sabine is gets sexually excited quite easily; she identifies herself as a bit of a seductress whilst talking to a girlfriend named Clarisse (Dombasle) later on and they banter in a cheery manner about Sabine being attractive and powerful enough to be able to have a man "eat out of one of her hands". The good hour and a half we spend with Sabine roaming both rural France by car and a more urban, cobbled France by way of the local streets on foot allows us to peek inside of her life at a time when she bravely exclaims she will take on a more serious attitude to life and love; proudly boasting she will find a man she won't want to render a mere fling-on-the-side for instances in which gross levels of hormonal discharge occur. She says she will come to marry this man.

The tone of the film is relatively light hearted and upbeat, building to a crescendo of emotion and frustration as realisations of where the lead is on the overall plateau of relationships and partners which feels ever more jarring because of the prior tone. This is a pure and unflinching character study of an individual confused in how the human species works above a certain level of thinking and in attitudes to both relationships and partners: on the side; marital or otherwise. In boasting she will shortly find a man; marry and settle down, Clarisse informs her she can probably get any one she wants such is her charisma and ability with men. There's a pinch of salt in the statement, but behind that a feeling that it might very well be true thus complimenting Sabine's ignorant belief that marriage and finding suitors for marriage is as easy as what it is she's done in regards to men her whole life. The potential suitor is Edmond (Dussollier); a single, slightly older lawyer working in a relatively high-rise building in a bustling part of town, someone she meets through a relative at a party, fool-heartedly and somewhat tragically jumping in with the first choice that has come along.

Needless to say, their relationship is interesting enough and Sabine's gradual realisation of what she is with what mentality she seems to belong to is fascinating enough to act as the entire core of the film. A brilliant scene at a restaurant, Sabine and Edmond inhabiting window seats out of which a flowing river is visible, sees the camera focus on Edmond for the duration of the time it takes Sabine to document exactly what it is she wants out of life and where she sees aspires to be. Edmond's face fills the screen, his expression one of both realisation and transition as Sabine speaks and we sort-of-but-not-quite see exactly how he feels with all the emphasis on him; his expressions slightly downcast and dishevelled as he absorbs what's being said, putting across a relatively doomed sense about things. The tragic ingredients on Sabine's behalf is a slow burning, very gradual process of trying to prove herself to peers and Edmond himself by straining to present herself as deadly serious in her goal to succeed at finding a suitor and marrying, thus expelling the man-eater tag she and Clarisse both deem she possesses. In doing so, leaving one's job and loosing interest in her arts course so as to pursue a new ideology others deem age-old in settling down to adopt the role of a bog-standard house wife acts as a tragic undercurrent to proceedings, paining the audience to find some kind of middle ground.

As the film progresses, and it becomes less and less obvious the relationship might work, Sabine's epiphany in the realisation who she is and the nature of her attitudes towards love; sexual relations and the opposite sex comes close to breaking point at her birthday. Whilst those around her enjoy the occasion, Sabine can only sulk that her latest (although this time supposedly well intended) target in Edmond hasn't shown up; their eventual coming together interrupted at a vital moment when Edmond, embodying professionalism in his dress sense throughout the piece, and Sabine, the more carefree youth who's drastically trying to spark a new nature of relationship, clash in her bedroom at a vital time in both their time together. Here, the case study between young; slightly idiotic; easily seduced; marital problem infused men and a male of a more mature nature is about to become clear save for the interruption. Rohmer has taken us to somewhat of a breaking point before dramatically rounding things off shortly thereafter: A Good Marriage is a good watch.

This is a novel idea for a movie--a woman who is tired of crappy relationships and so she deliberately sets out to find a man to marry. She is so hot for marriage, that she grabs onto the first apparently eligible bachelor who fits her basic criteria. This is pretty interesting and new, so it kept my attention. However, the movie never really became a comedy or tragedy or stalking film (though it came close) and when it ended, not a whole lot had been accomplished. I just felt rather unsatisfied and wanted to see more attempts by this ditzy lady. By the way, this movie actually reminded me of the Cary Grant/Betsy Drake film EVERY GIRL SHOULD BE MARRIED, though the Grant/Drake film was cuter and a little more contrived. Plus, Cary or Betsy NEVER would have shown their naked butts in a movie!